What do you get when you bring a curious sex expert together with the nicest woman on OnlyFans? A show that really goes there. Each week, Ruby Rare and Megan Barton-Hanson welcome listeners to an unfiltered, playful and inclusive space to talk about sex in all its glory. They unpick all the big questions like: “How can we talk about kinks and fantasies?”, “Does stress kill the vibe?”, “What place does humour have in the bedroom?”, “How can we banish shame around sexual desires?”, and “Does wearing socks actually lead to a better orgasm?!”. Along the way, they share their own unforgettable stories of sex and dating, and hear from you lovely lot about your sex questions and tried-and-tested sex tips.
A Mags Creative and Dear Media production.
Ruby and Meg chat to actor, comedian and writer Ash Self (best known for playing Felix in Heartstopper), who debunks the myth that disabled people either can’t have sex or don’t want to.
We hear about sex education (or lack of it) in the hospital youth ward where Ash spent some time and how he feels people expect to see him on Children in Need rather than Grindr. Ruby, Meg and Ash also debate whether Love Island is ready for a trans wheelchair user (or even just hairy armpits?!).
Ash shares his dating highs - sleeping with another trans person for the first time - and dating lows - a comically bad sex moment that he swerved, thanks to asthma and his gran!
Email the podcast: hello@insandoutspod.com
Follow Ruby on socials: @rubyrare
Follow Megan on socials @meganbartonhanson_
Follow Ash on socials @smashself
Ash’s recommendations:
- Disability Intimacy: Essays on Love, Care, and Desire, edited by Alice Wong
Ruby and Meg’s recommendations
- Heartstopper TV series (Netflix)
The Ins and Outs with Ruby and Megan is a Mags Creative and Dear Media production
Producer and Content Editor for Mags Creative: Christy Callaway-Gale
Editor and Engineer: Beautiful Strangers, Podcast House
Executive Producers for Mags Creative: Faith Russell and Kit Milsom
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