The Erotic Realm is a top 10 podcast that explores eroticism in all its forms including the darker desires of BDSM and kinky sexuality- one erotic realm at a time.
Hosted by Emma, Sexologist and founder of Psychology of Desire, this series dives into the science, symbolism, and stories of sexuality. Each episode reveals how eroticism shapes identity, healing, and power.
Join Emma and discover the deeper layers of pleasure, shame, and transformation — and what your own desires might be trying to teach you.
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What happens when fantasy turns into reality?
In this episode I sit down with Kay, an erotic fiction writer who discovered her submissive nature through fan fiction.
Now, she explores real-life submission while navigating a vanilla marriage and a dynamic with her Dominant.
We discuss:
- How writing fan fiction led her to explore real-life BDSM.
- The differences between fantasy submission and lived experiences.
- How submission and BDSM help regulate her mental health.
- Balancing a vanilla marriage with an active kink life.
- The psychology behind storytelling, power exchange, and erotic identity.
Research Paper:Perception Correction: Addressing Social Stigmatization Around BDSM and Mental Health.
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