{"author_name":"Notes from the Edge","author_url":"https://art19.com/shows/notes-from-the-edge/episodes/c192acdb-f4c9-4473-a67b-3e9ca2924cb9","description":"<p>Were you taught to be kind… or taught to disappear?</p><p>In this episode of <em><strong>Notes From the Edge</strong></em>, Lisa explores Good Girl Conditioning through the lens of survival, adaptation, and identity. What happens when being agreeable, helpful, accommodating, and responsible stops being a choice and becomes a performance?</p><p>From people-pleasing and perfectionism to high-functioning survival, this episode examines the hidden cost of earning approval and the question many women eventually face:</p><p><strong>Who am I if I stop being who everyone expects me to be?</strong></p><p>If you’ve ever struggled with boundaries, overachievement, self-erasure, or the pressure to hold everything together, this conversation is for you.</p><p><strong>Reflection Question:</strong><br><em>What did being a good girl cost you?</em></p><p><strong>Notes From the Edge</strong> is hosted by Lisa Lacy, writer, trauma educator, executive advisor, author of the upcoming memoir <em>Notes From a Certified Madwoman</em>, and its field guide companion <em>The Psychology of Performing™</em>.</p><p><strong>What did you perform in order to survive?</strong></p><p><strong>www.lisalacy.com</strong></p><p></p>\n<p></p><p><strong>Notes from the Edge with Lisa Lacy</strong></p><p>Human conversations about trauma, identity, recovery, reinvention, relationships, leadership, and the lives we build after survival. </p><br> <p>Hosted by Simplecast, an AdsWizz company. See <a href=\"https://pcm.adswizz.com\" target=\"_blank\">pcm.adswizz.com</a> for information about our collection and use of personal data for advertising.</p>","html":"<iframe src=\"https://art19.com/shows/notes-from-the-edge/episodes/c192acdb-f4c9-4473-a67b-3e9ca2924cb9/embed\" style=\"width: 720px; height: 200px; border: 0 none;\" width=\"720\" height=\"200\" scrolling=\"no\" sandbox=\"allow-scripts allow-popups allow-popups-to-escape-sandbox\"></iframe>","provider_name":"ART19","provider_url":"https://art19.com","title":"Good Girl Conditioning: Survival or Personality?","type":"rich","version":"1.0","width":720,"height":200}